I wish there was a way to get the idea across that how a mother cares for her child is not your concern and there are many different ways to accomplish the same outcome. 

But let's try this ... Did you carry this child inside of you for nine months and then push her out of your vagina? Because if so I have some medical bills you could be paying. Oh no?? Okay. Then maybe you don't know her better than I do. 

Stop shaming mothers for doing their best.